Showing posts with label gothic wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gothic wedding. Show all posts

Wedding Photographs

Finally! I have a chance to post up some of the photos from our wedding to show you guys. I hope I haven't shared too much, but we had so many photos it was difficult to narrow it down. There's a mixture of different pictures in this post including some of the ones taken by our professional wedding photographer Catriona Munro. Catriona's not only a great friend who made us feel totally at ease being photographed, but she's also incredibly professional and produced beautiful images. I'm so happy with the resulting photos and the way they don't look like 'typical' wedding photos.

The day itself could not have been more perfect. Especially considering I had a huge panic attack at the rehearsal three days beforehand (in retrospect, I think I got all my nerves and panic out the way that day so I didn't have any left by the wedding!). Everything just seemed to go so smoothly, from the ceremony, to the buffet to the (slightly embarrassing) speeches. We wanted it to be a Christian ceremony since our faith is something very important to us. We chose hymns and religious vows and, even so, I was still surprised at how lovely, personal and Jesus-centred the day was. The band playing for us was the band from my old church back home and two of my good friends gave prayers and read scripture. It was really lovely. I suppose everyone thinks that their wedding was the nicest since it's theirs, but it really was just perfect for us. Not too big and not too fancy and very, very child-friendly!

The bridesmaids' wrist bouquets, from The Flower Grove, Kirkintilloch. They did such an awesome job
Ruth, my bridesmaid, checking out my nails in the amazing gothic room we were given to get ready in [photo by Catriona Munro Photography]
Doing my hair [photo by Catriona Munro Photography]
Susie can't believe her wee sister's getting married [photo by Catriona Munro Photography]
Ruth even cried a little when she saw me in my dress [photo by Catriona Munro Photography]
Some adjustments [photo by Catriona Munro Photography]
Fixing my jewellery at the last minute
And here's Culcreuch Castle, the beautiful gothic venue for our wedding... Well, the ceremony and meal were in another building but this is where we got ready and spent a lot of the day...
... It's also where the bar was. My pals ain't as teetotal as ma good self, it seems [photo by Catriona Munro Photography]
That's us! Spot the ghostly flower girl head in the window. Spooooky
My dad leading me out the building
Off to get married
As you can see, I'm papping it at this point. I was so worried my nerves would get the better of me
Annie, the only flower girl from my side of the family needs a bit of coaxing. I know the feeling, wee one
My wee nephew Angus. He's figured out the purpose of a sporran: it's for keeping dinosaurs in, duh
The marriage ceremony
Exchanging of the rings
And now we're Mr. and Mrs.
Having a seat during the sermon
Lenzie Christian Fellowship Praise Band played all our music. They were awesome 
Walking back down the aisle
Tim swears he's not having a pre-wedding night peek here. I'm not so sure
 Cheery couple
I think Tim was threatening to pick me up and run off with me at this point 
My Uncle poked out the window to take some nice birds-eye photos
[photo by Catriona Munro Photography]
Back of my heid
Of course most of the photos had my sister photobombing us in some way
My lovely bridesmaids
Chilling inside the castle for a bit
Cutting the cake. The beautiful cake was made by Tim's mum
My bouquet artfully placed next to some of the table decorations. I'm not even going to pretend it didn't take me weeks to paint those jars and melt all the candles  
Triple evil [photo by Catriona Munro Photography]
Some shoe swapping going on in this place...
My pal Jenny who got hitched a week after us (we totally stole here thunder because we're terrible people!) [photo by Catriona Munro Photography]
Group hug [photo by Catriona Munro Photography]
And here's the info for all you wedding watchers:

♥ Rings by Ruth Laila
♥ Photography by Catriona Munro
♥ Flowers by The Flower Grove
 Dress - Angelique Lamont
 Veil by Elaine Sims
♥ Bridesmaids' dresses - BHS
 Necklace - Restyle
♥ Earrings - Crimson Rich Desire

Our Gothic & Ghoulish Wedding Invitations

If you're getting married and one of you is a graphic designer, the task of making the wedding invitations tends to fall on you. That's ok with me though! I was full of ideas immediately. From the start, I wanted to make something personal to us that highlighted our complimentary differences in a nice way. People are always commenting on the differences in our appearance so I thought I'd use our two hands together: his big, swarthy Australian hand and my pale, little goth hand.

The reason they're severed and in a box is because, well, I thought it was kind of funny and cute... in a strange way. It's like a pop up surprise: the outside of the card is like the outside of the box then you open it up and get a fright and maybe a giggle.

Here are the invitations:










Along with the invitation card and the rsvp card, I also slipped in a postcard-sized print of a little caricature I drew of Tim and me. I purposely drew the dress and jewellery differently from what I'll be wearing on the day because I want Tim to get a surprise. And, yes, he is is that much taller than me!

Wedding Colours, Flowers & Red Velvet Cupcakes

Choosing a colour scheme for our wedding has been something I've really enjoyed recently. I can't say it's been too difficult though. The choice was an obvious and instinctive one so it's not as though I've had to spend hours deciding between different options. At least I haven't had to worry about the whole Should we go for lemon bridesmaids' dresses with orange and silver accents or fresh greens and whites??! thing, not being into those happy colours!

It's not that I'm not fussy about colours though. Heavy contrasting black and white makes me feel uncomfortable and reminds me too much of Tim Burton films. Pillar box red has always been a big no-no for me as well: way too cheerful. I'm the same way with home decor as well, I guess.




Anyway, here are the results of messing about with colour palettes in colourlovers. I found it pretty helpful.

Right from the start, muted reds and purples stuck out to me as a classy colourscheme and a great way to be colourful without being light and bright. That way you can have black, bruise and aubergine with deep wines and plums and rich, dark reds.

When we went to the florist the other day, I mentioned this to her. She was fantastic and knew exactly what I meant. I brought along samples of my groom's tartan and and pictures of the bridesmaids' dresses (cream with black lace!) and she set about making samples up.



She said she would give me a list of all the flowers she used because I can't remember them all and I thought it would be useful in case someone asks. There's definitely one type of calla lily in there, tea leaves (she sprays the leaves and it makes them look like shiny, black pvc! It's awesome) and freedom roses. There'll be black baccara roses as well, but they're not in the picture.

Since I'll be in a black dress, you'd be forgiven for thinking we'd be having a black, red or purple cake. It's being made my future mother-in-law who's a great cake-maker and it's actually going to white (something has to be, don't you think?!) and heart-shaped... Also it's not fruit cake because fruit cake is yucky. It's three tiers so we're going for lovely rich chocolate on the bottom, vanilla sponge on top and red velvet in the middle. Now I know that red velvet is a bit of a gimmick and also hopelessly trendy at the moment (it could be worse: it could be ombre...), but you have to admit there's something pretty awesome about a bright red cake that tastes like a lighter, fluffier chocolate cake. You know there is.

Anyway, before we decided on it, I had a go making some red velvet cupcakes myself to see if everyone else liked the taste. I loved adding all the colouring because it looked like bloooooooood.






Anyway I hope you enjoyed this needlessly long and detailed post about my approaching wedding (three weeks left? When did that happen?! Arggh!). I really hope it's not just me that finds this nonsense interesting! I love reading about other people's weddings though, don't you?